SLUT

When I started my blog and when I posted my boudoir photography on the blog and facebook it was with the intention of starting a sexual revolution. It was with the intention of helping all women including myself become comfortable in their own skin.

We have been taught to be sqweeky clean.. to be good mothers and nice ladies… basically leave the fun to the men..

I say BULLSHIT!

You will read peices of writing that I have collected off the net that talk about the SLUT WALK.. the reason for the SLUT WALK is so that women have the social freedom to express their true and raw sexuality.

A woman freed from the bondage of societies expectations of her is a powerful woman.. she is wild,, fun and sexy as hell.

It doesn’t matter your size or your body type race or anything else..what matters is that you love yourself and you love your body.That we as women take the time to take care of ourselves..that we stop the ironing..and the folding..that we go outside and play! Yes we play just like the guys…and we take the time to please ourselves sexually..that we dive right in to our own bodies..

When women tell me that they want to look just like me I tell them ” look more like you..express and celibrate your own beauty”

Take the time to look over your own body..and love the parts of you that are the most sexy.. love your skin.. love your breast, your thighs..and your hips..take the time to put on some make-up just for you.. to look good just for you..in your own individual way.. be all that you can be today and be more of you tomorrow.

Yes I love my body.. I am proud of my curves and my intense sexuality..this is not a act this it truly me.. some wear this as a mask to impress others to get attention to manipulate men and to get a head in the world.. I do not.. I am a hot sexy momma..and so are you..thats my piont..as women it has to start with us..if we see each other as competition for men..than we loose our sexy confidence..a confident women can appreciate other women’s beauty and complement them..not call other women down out of insecurity.. we are all beautiful.. in our wild sexy selves.. be you..express your sex-appeal.. love what it does for him.

He wants to see those buttons just a little to low..he wants to see your dress just a little to high up.. he wants to see you look up and not down at the ground..strut your stuff girls you got it going on.. own what God gave you..enjoy sex with out guilt.. ride him until he crys out for help!

Be wild and free.. let the goddess in you get dirty.. naughty and uncontrolled.. take him for a roll in the hay.. just don’t look down on yourself it starts today..

I want you to go and have the same experiance as me; go and get some boudoir photography done..take some burlesque dance or some bellydancing, pole dance.. live in your flesh..eat healthy exercise and be the best and the hottest that you can be..
LOVE SEX!

Touch yourself and explore your body don’t repress you natural sexuality because the world society has tried to keep you in line and under control with the good girl mentality.. its bullshit!

Take back your right..we need to take back our right to be sexy..sweet..sassy and naughty with out being made to feel like social rejects from society..

Our men want it just as much as we do.. most modern men don’t want their wives and girlfriends to remind them of their mothers.. they like girls gone wild..with class..

Nothing raunchy..just fun and free..

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_do_people_stereotype_and_judge_others

Insecurites

most are insecure so they judge and make fun of others to cover up their insecurites.
And by doing this we as human beings feel better about ourselves.

Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_do_people_stereotype_and_judge_others#ixzz1nDzn1iCo

Slut
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Slut or slattern is a term applied to an individual who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. The term is generally pejorative and often applied to women as an insult or offensive term of disparagement, meaning “dirty or slovenly.”[1] However some women have demonstrated saying they’re proud of being “sluts”, and have given it a positive connotation.[2][3]

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/women_shealth/8510743/These-slut-walk-women-are-simply-fighting-for-their-right-to-be-dirty.html

If the kitchen maid’s life was made wretched by the struggle against dirt, the life of the housewife was hardly less so. A woman who didn’t hang out her washing when everyone else did, who didn’t scrub her front doorstep and windowsills, who didn’t scour everything that could be scoured at least once a week, but preferred to gossip with her friends or play with her children in the sun, would also be suspected of being no better than she should be. A man married to a sloven needed to take her in hand if he was not to be generally despised.
Twenty-first century women are even more relentlessly hounded and harassed by the threat of dirt. No house is ever clean enough, no matter how many hours its resident woman spends spraying and wiping, Hoovering, dusting, disinfecting and deodorising. Women’s bodies can never be washed often enough to be entirely free of dirt; they must be depilated and deodorised as well. When it comes to sex, women are as dirty as the next man, but they don’t have the same right to act out their fantasies. If they’re to be liberated, women have to demand the right to be dirty. By declaring themselves sluts, they lay down the Cillit Bang and take up the instruments of pleasure.
Men already enjoy the right to be dirty. In the usual rugby house, unwashed dishes can be found festering under beds as well as piled to chin height in the sink. The rubbish bin will contain an impacted mess of stomped-down rubbish. The lavatory would be only too accurately described as a bog. The filth becomes a challenge; the first man to crack and grab the Hoover is a sissy. In mixed digs in our tolerant universities, it’s the women who are forever cleaning the shared facilities, because the men won’t. The con is a simple one. If you don’t mind that the toilet’s disgusting, then don’t clean it; if you do, then do. Girls don’t have the option of not minding. Dirty house equals dirty woman equals tramp.
If women are to overthrow the tyranny of perpetual cleansing, we have to be able to say: “Yes, I am a slut. My house could be cleaner. My sheets could be whiter. I could be without sexual fantasies too – pure as the untrodden snow – but I’m not. I’m a slut and proud.” The rejection by women of compulsory cleansing of mind, body and soul is a necessary pre-condition of liberation. Besides, taking part in what looks like an endless “vicars and tarts’ street party is not just bad-ass. It’s fun.

I think a “VICARS AND TARTS” party for a charity event in Kelowna B.C. would be amazing.. for fun..to raise money for a charity and to loosen up Kelowna..cause damn we need it.. hey I know pole dancers..burlesque instructors..and bellydancers..sounds like a fricken good time to me..

I included these pictures of Sophia Loren..because she is a great example of a women who has it going on.. she is ageless due to her confidence.. she is very good example of a woman who can live in her sexiness..

  • Michelle H

    WOW! WTG! I’m a sexy woman who is proud to say I LOVE SEX and I’m not afraid to tell it to EVERY woman I encounter! I’ve heard about the slut walk and I am 100% behind this!

    • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

      A sexy sexual woman is a powerful woman.. so nice to meet a fellow soul :)

    • Danielle R

      I love this.. It just makes me feel more Excited to be a Woman. I love sex, I love sexy, I love me!! I agree with Michelle H, More expression,more woman out there telling it like it is, is and will make a difference !! :)

      • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

        By living in our own truth..and loving our flesh..we will make a difference for your sons and daughters..we will free society..we will move forward..I am so happy to see all your comments and your excitment over this post :)

  • Laurel

    Ride him till he cries out for help….that made me laugh my ass off!! Well lemme see, dirty dishes, Check…..dirty toilets, check, laundry room doesn’t have a floor right now..guess I’m slutting it up with yah Gracie!!

    • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

      you do it well..by bellydancing friend..sexy and sassy..thats the only way to be :)

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