LIFE…a conversation between me and my sister

I was in th kitchen just now cooking up a pot of chicken soup for my sick little girl; when my sister called me. She was calling about my blog and the fact that Tara; Adrian’s girlfriend had left such sick comments under the post ( Text from Lucifer ) and ( Grace is Bridgett Jones’s Diary ) She had just read the text messages from Adrian and she was very concerned about the sexual content and that this man and his girlfriend were saying such degrading things about me. She felt that I was degrading myself by publishing them and making them public knowledge.. But I explained to her that by laying the content out in the open I was refusing to feel shame or degragation by their cruelity by not hiding away. I explained to my sister that this is how abusive people work; they try to make you feel ashamed for their horrible behavior.

Then I asked her if she remembered a friend of ours from facebook; a guy that I had been talking to by messages on facebook; she said ” yes.” I said ” we had a really great conversation; he is really funny and smart and he has read my blog. He seems really interested in me.” she asked ” did he read the entire blog?” ” ya I think so.” I said.. she replied ” well if he read Lucifer’s text messages than he knows you squirt and if he read the vibrator story he knows you use one of those too.. I bet he is interested!!!” I BURST OUT LAUGHING!!!!

My sister just can’t believe that I let everyone know that I slept with the Preacher, The Butcher and Lucifer.. she can’t believe that a 41 years of age and that after having three kids and being sexually active for over 20 years that I could be so comfortable with my sexuality.. Than she said.. ” I can’t believe you and Sharon can do it but I can’t ” Then I thought but didn’t say ” you need a vibrator ” I BURST OUT LAUGHING ANYWAY!!!

She kept telling me to calm down but I just couldn’t stop.. I haven’t laughed so hard in my entire life!

My sister is my opposite.. she works in the church and she is very socially correct and well I don’t have to say to you what I am do I! LOL

I like to shake it up.. I like to make creativenes out of crap.. I told her ” thanks for the creative crap sis!” She said ” you are not going to write about this are you?” ” YUP” was my reply… Hers was “NO, NO don’t you dare Gracie!!!”

I said ” YA” she said “STOP IT” I said “OH YA”

So here it is a real life conversation between two very different sisters about men and sex!

One the Rebel and the other not so much. LOL

I hope it informed and entertained ;)

  • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

    Saying that you are a sexual peson is not being slutty or rude.. It is obvious that we all have bodily functions and sexual needs; being healthy sexually is not a sin or something to be ashamed of.. just like eating or sleeping; having a healthy sexual appetite natural.

    Women are socially made to feel like sluts when they adimit to their natural sex drive and they are shunned whent they speak about sex.. this is why I have been so open and honest about my life.. to do away with this shame that has been used ot control women for hundreds of years.

    I have personaly had enough!

    • Max

      you are amazing writer and I like people who can stand for their believe and are honest.

      • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

        Thank you so much.. I am really enjoying this experience.. it is a thrill to see others like you enjoy and comment on my writing.. it really is a social experience and experiment.. I LOVE IT :)

  • Art

    This From a man who sees Grace for who she really is
    a woman that is not afraid to express her self in any way including her sexuality I know this from experience and it is not in a sexual way it is through beautiful communication
    so here’s to the crazy ones the misfits
    , rebels the ones who see things differently

  • Art

    This is a gentle message for Grace’s sister
    your family and my family are identical in so far as religious beliefs and
    understand where you’re coming from
    Grace and I are similar in regards to matters of the heart
    I’ve met your sister and I assure you she is the woman of the highest morals
    Grace just happens to be an extremely creative writer talented writer that may confuse humans.
    But I assure you she is a lady in every sense of the word and should be held in high regard by all

    • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

      Thanks Art.. for being such a sweet gentlemen :)

    • Christina D. Kennedy

      Art you knew my sister for 2-3 weeks through POD, texting, a phone call or 2 and met her once where she sent you packing.
      I am really trying hard to be gental here to but I don’t think by any means you can pull rank and tell me about my sister that I have known for 40 years and spent many hours talking and learning each other.
      Grace is not Mother Terisa a Prodogy or Psychic. She is my sister she has been through a lot and I love her.
      Thanks for your revelation, but you DO hardly know her. This may be amusing to some, kinda like reality TV right, well we all know how that goes for people after all is said and done. I know you have a lot of healing to do yet Grace and so do your kids.
      I love you!

  • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

    This is my healing in progress.. this is my healing.. you don’t see me Christina.. you see who you want to see..but I love you also

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