From My Sister for.. my sister

Puting this post up so I can send it right back to her in a message.. I am getting sick of being scolded like a child.. hopefully this will make it stop.. I hope it helps others to see why this sort of manipulation and judgement doesn’t work.

My sister
o Not fair that only what you want gets shown to the world talk about vengful
o I will post it to all your friends individually if I have to
o Really tying to lay the sword down are you that was uncalled for Grace, just trying to manipulated for your use you will never change will you

4 hours ago
Gracie Ackerman
o posting to people individually will only make you look vengeful Christina..I advise you not to. I only put on the blog what you yourself wrote to me.

You judge me harshly when I ask you for peace..this is my live experience that I blog about.

the comments that you made only say more of the samething.. you slam me and then cover it up with you love me.

You say God despises what I do..but it is really you who despises me.. you use religion to hide your hate behind

4 hours ago My sister
o That is so wrong and also you opinion and you put post up that you feel will glorify yor points and are from your point of view not from mine. So please don’t talk or contact me again you can’t be trusted AT ALL!

4 hours ago
Gracie Ackerman
o You can post those post on your wall and comment under them as much as you like without me interfering at all. Its a free world as far as I am concerned. That way all your facebook friends that hate me too can have at her
o I did not come to you looking for peace to put something on the blog. I really want us to be a family. You hurt me so much today that I had to write about. That’s how I deal with my pain and sort through life is through my writing and it might serve to help someone else. To know that others go through the same hurt by their family members. You wrote what you wrote, take some responsibility for your self and your motivations. It is to hurt me

3 hours ago
My sister
o Forget it Grace I am content in what I told you I just don’t think it is fare you posted without my consent so a report to facebook has been made. You need to ask someones permission! Also I didn’t post anything to you to hurt you, you posted it we were just talking on here, something we obviously can’t do (even the simplest of things). I agree with you though now that you posted it maybe someone will learn something from it, I really pray someone does It’s just to bad that somebody wasn’t you. I think you shoulod take sometime, humble yourself if you will and go over your messages on FB and look at how you are guilty of the very things you accuse other people of in your messages.
It is pretty clear to me and I am thining you can comprehend the clearness that it is futile for us to keep talking to eachother.
So you shall proceed with all your idols, terriot cards, crystals, readings ect. (that have NEVER gotten you anywhere, just costed you money) and I shall proceed the way you find boaring and long enduring as well as blind. Thats about it and In saying that I don’t expect to hear from you, so lets not talk f rom this e-mail on please.

Cristi

3 hours ago
Gracie Ackerman
o I did not use your name in the post..report it all you want.. your messages to me can be seen as abusive as well

2 hours ago
Gracie Ackerman
o It makes me sad..all the hate that i feel coming from you to me.. my own sister

2 hours ago
My sister
o I don’t hate you, I hate what you do, so stop saying that, it is putting words in my mouth.

2 hours ago
Gracie Ackerman
o your action speak of hate..to reject me and my children because of my beliefs and life style you are being judgmental and high-and-mighty.

You speak about humility but you do not walk the talk.. you speak of forgiveness but you show none..

God is mercy and Love.. pure love..but you only speak of condamnation and judgement..and then you dare to say that God despises my lifestyle or beliefs..who are you to assume to know God’s thoughts about me.. his child and his creation..
Do you despise your children..if they do not follow your ways..

Oh that’s right you do!

I guess that is how you will percieve God then.. to damn us all to hell unless we follow scripture and rules explicitly and to the T

2 hours ago
Gracie Ackerman
o My God is a God of pure LOVE.. you can have your God of hate

about an hour ago
My sister
o We are made in God’s image and God made everything. You quoted God made everything and he is everything yourself Grace, if that is true he must get angy and jealous if he invented it.

We have prisons run by men and people get punished, if we didn’t have prisons and people didn’t get punished the world would be crazier than it already is. Well God is the creator and He is the ultimate judge. He will punish all according to their works, but fairer than mankind does becaues God doesn’t miss a thing, not a thought, or anyhting out of ear or eye shot. People don’t just deny his son the pure sacrafice and say, “Well I’ve been good down here, gave to charity, but I didn’t get to know you , have a relationship with you or your son, but know I wanna come live with you for iternity?” That is not the way things work. Would you let a stranger come to your door and say. “Hey I’m a good person, I don’t now you, but I’d like to move in right now?” I don’t think that would work. And what about all the hitlers of the world? God has to judge. And loving who could be more loving you could deny His Son yoiur whole life and on the 11th hour he would forgive you.
My God gets angry, jealous, vengful, but he also is very loving.

ANGRY:

Deuteronomy 4:21
The LORD was angry with me because of you, and he solemnly swore that I would not cross the Jordan and enter the good land the LORD your God is giving you as your

JEALOUS & VENGFUL:

Exodus 34:14
Do not worship any other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God.

Deuteronomy 4:24
For the LORD your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God.

LOVING:

Psalm 36:7
How priceless is your unfailing love, O God! People take refuge in the shadow of your wings.

Nahum 1:2

The LORD’s Anger Against Nineveh
2 The LORD is a jealous and avenging God;
the LORD takes vengeance and is filled with wrath.
The LORD takes vengeance on his foes
and vents his wrath against his enemies.

Isaiah 35:4
say to those with fearful hearts, “Be strong, do not fear; your God will come, he will come with vengeance; with divine retribution he will come to save you.”

LOVING:

Joel 2:13
Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the LORD your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity.

Psalm 36:7
How priceless is your unfailing love, O God! People take refuge in the shadow of your wings.

1 John 4:16
And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.

HERE IS A GOOD ONE and as much as you say I don’t love you I do, it is only you saying that I don’t.

1 John 4:20
Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.

God is a multitude of things, but the greatest of these is Love. Who could put up with such people as God does the people in this world giving them chance after chance as they mock him.


4 minutes ago
Gracie Ackerman
o Christina stop hiding behind scripture.. don’t you have any thoughts of your own.. seriouly that is why God gave you a brain right?

You use scripture as a weapon.. you push me away from your way of worshiping God because you use it to manipulate and hurt..even the words of love in the bible you use to hurt..

I don’t believe that just because someone knows scripture and that they can throw it around that it makes them more important or makes then know God any better than anyone else

It is the way you live your life and how you treat others that counts.. In the end only kindness matters

  • Christina Kennedy

    Grace you have done it for good now you crossed a line you shared our private conversations for what? To get you sympathy and attention. You can’t be trusted and I want nothing more to do with you. This has really hurt me for the third time today! And you say you want me to forgive you and move on, yeah right! Take a hike! And all those who think Christians are perfect get a reality check Christians are human. I am not your sister Grace any longer you ahve hurt me one to many times and nobody knows the things you have done caues I don’t put it in my status bar. Don’t ever contact me and act like you need sympathy for this, you wanted this. And Shannon the big Grace supporter you have no idea, so back off of me before you guess to give an opinion about my relationship with Grace or someone you don’t know!

  • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

    Christina.. this is the first time in my life that I have truly stood up to you. You have not given me even common everyday respect. You have always treated me as if I was beneath your or as if I only existed for you.

    We grew up in a very abuse family. You have continued the abuse of our childhood.. I am not the only family member that you do this to.

    You have physically abused me.. you have mentally abused me by questioning my sanity to everyone on facebook.. you didn’t just question my sanity you told everyone that I had been committed to the hospital against my free will several times.. you out-right lied!

    You abuse me spiritually by telling me I am going to hell for the way that I choose to see God and Creation.

    Emtionally you abuse me by turning your children against me by your lies and hatred.. you encouraged you daughter my neice to call me down on facebook months ago about my spiritual beliefs.. you tell your children that I am going to hell..

    Your abusive behaviour is pooring down to my children now..as you are excluding them from your life and your children’s lives because I am their mother..

    How sickening is that?!

    I have had enough of your abuse and out-right cruelty.

    I put this up on the blog so that other’s can see what it is .. so that they can stop others from abusing and bulling them.

    I also put this up to vent away all the years of pain and confusion that you have given to me..and finally

    To let you know that you are not allowed to do this to me anymore..

    I am not your doormat.. I am not your scape goat… I am not your kicking post..

    Take responsibility for yourself.. stop putting your pain on to me

    Deal with it!

  • Christina Kennedy

    Looks like you are reversing the roles here and lying which is nothing new. I am asking you to delete the last 3 post of our private conversation that you selectivly took out and manipulated the messages.
    Also not once do I say you are going to hell. I have never physically aboused you that is what you have done and always have done to me.
    Also in our private messages all I said over and over was that God is so forgiving and I said over and over again I forgive you. Then you did this.
    My daughter is smart enough and strong minded enough to defend herself, she was the one that told me what had already been going on between the 2 of you. I didn’t even no the beginning of it. Your problem was if I remember correctly and I do, you wanted me to punish her for showing you up and making you bull look like bull.

    • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

      I did not manipulate these messages and I can send them to anyone on facebook to prove it!

      I left alot of messages out from you as they were to shitty to publish because they even cast you in a darker light.. because you are my sister and I love you.. I left them out to save you from your own hate.

      • Christina Kennedy

        Lies, you wouldn’t want to let people see how you were in love with my first love, my fiance, and my first husband and that you stole my wedding ring and got caught. You can lie about that all you want , but it will always JUST be you lying.I am done Grace you are not welcome to blog about me and I am not giving you permission to blog or talk about me on facebook, I will not responding on here or to you, but may need to take it to other measures.
        If you choose to get the help you need than contact me and I will be by your side. Until then there will be no contact between you and my family whatsoever.

  • Christina Kennedy

    I am asking you one more time to take these post down?

    • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

      I leave it up on the blog..that I was in love with your fiance and husband and that I stole your wedding ring… cause it just shows how petty you are… I could give a fuck about the men in your life.. I had crush on Greg Hoyle.

      I told you I loved Greg Hoyle.. I was 16 and you were 14..big fricken WHOOP!

      I will talk about you and who ever I wish when ever I want to..feel FREE******** yes*** FREE…did I say******* FREE

      TO DO THE SAME!

  • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

    I did not publish your full name.. by wanting me to post your comments..and by commenting you have put your full name on the blog.

    I sent you the first post.. you kept on chewing me out using the bible to do it.. you have taught your daughter to hate me!

    It is not her fault.. you raised her to disrespect me.

    You are still trying to lead by example to others to discredit me by telling others I am insane!

    You twist scripture.. you use it to manipulate and to gain power over others..

    If you want this to stop..stop commenting.. leave it alone..

    If you didn’t want this on the blog.. you would of stopped messaging me on facebook after I put up the first post.

    You do not want peace.. I want peace.. I want you to treat me fairly and with common everyday respect..

    I have just shown you your own words.. I have used the blog as a mirror.

    I just want you to see… yourself.

    I am totally honest with my writing..with what I put up on this blog

    I am far from perfect.. I am just as flawed as everyone else..

    So are you.. you have no right to judge me..to tell me my beliefs and lifestyle are wrong..so wrong that you don’t even want to see my kids..cause they are my kids.

    That is the weakness of religion it can turn families against each other.. it can turn love into hate..

    I am sick of it!

    I am showing you and the rest of the world that reads this.. what it can do!

    It is perfect example.. that’s why it is up on this blog..

    Maybe Christina everything happens for a reason.. this was meant to be!

    By accident you are helping others stop the maddness!

    Stop the maddness by example!

  • http://gracieackerman.wordpress.com Grace

    I just took one of my own comments off..cause your crap is causing me to want to express my anger.

    Just stop it!

    Why do you have to continue the competition?

    You have to call me down..discredit me as person.. to make yourself seem more ceditable.. just stop it!

    Go do something for others just for the sake of doing something kind.

    Stop looking for credit in everything you do.. why do you need others opinions to be constantly in your favor?

    Why do you need to bring me down to make yourself feel up?

    I am a good and loving person.. I am only standing my ground against your constant abuse..

    By putting that shit up about me being after the men in your life only shows the root cause of your jelousy towards me.

    Your insecure.

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